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Zolas · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 10:09 pm Post subject: drunken post!!

ok so as a lot of you know i broke up with my fiance lately, and ive been pondering moving home with parents, quitting d2 cause of no money, and just slitting all together etc....

well tonight i finally have a positive!

i went out with my friends from work drinkin and eatin at apple bees, and i was drunk by this point and our waitor brought over this waitress for some reason. my friend told her it was my bday for some reason it wasnt, so she said shed bring me balloons. she brought them and i said "do you still give bday kisses?" and she said "yeah i can do that" and she actually gave me a kiss on the cheek. so later she came back over and i asked for another one for my friend to take a pic and put it on my space and this waitress actually gave me another kiss, but i turned towards her and got her on the lips. i ended up scoring myself her number till the night was over. it was aweomse

so heres the thing:

ive been with nikki my ex since we were 17. im 22 now. i have no fuckin idea what to do on a date. i havent been on a date since, well 17. im 22 and this chick is only 18. what do we do? i think im gonna be as nervous as hell is there anyway around that? luciky nikki is out of town at the dolphins/greenbay game so at least i wont feel guilty cause im triny to get abck with her. i dunno!!!

Elusive · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 10:22 pm Post subject:

sounds like my situation just more serious and you're 4+ years older, but i went to a movie with a girl i had met before and i hit things off fine.

so i uhh cant really say just treat it like you'd treat any girl you're first meeting. be confident and sure but not an arrogant jerk.

plus u have the age advantage i wouldnt be worried.

Belarathon · Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 10:29 pm Post subject:

yeah confidence! act polite but dont act like you need this date to go well just play it light and breezy! and if you are nervous, have like 3 or 4 beers before the date then listerine, its not enough to make you stupid or sloppy, just enough to take the edge off (ima semi alcoholic!) go to dinner first and dont say a WORD about nikki or other girls lol, then do whatever you want! you can go out to a movie, rent amovie for your own place, drive to a romantic spot and chat, or whatever cool stuff there is in your town!
above all else: score with her and video tape it and send it to b so he can find out what a naked lady looks like

Will · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 9:11 am Post subject:

No movie man..That's bad for a first date..

Try to find something like a show or anything..That way you don't need to talk and she'll have a great date..Just make sure you do something after like go take a coffee so you get time to talk..

Movies are so clich?..

Oh and..If you're nervous and it's been a long time since you had sex...Unload your gun before leaving..Otherwise you could shoot yourself in the foot..If you know what I mean..

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FudGe · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 10:12 am Post subject:

DiPLOMAT · Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 1644 12.37 Silvarrr

be original. take her to applebee's!

Belarathon · Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 11:37 pm Post subject:

lol seeing live plays is always so awesome. no good theaters in my town though.
30,000 is a newb population

OSA · Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 9:03 am Post subject:

Well, the first date me and my bird went on went like this;

1. Bowling.
2. Taught her how to skateboard a lil.
3. Ice cream.
4. Didn't really plan it, but we watched a sunset and just talked.
5. Watched a lil tv at her house.
6. Planned another date and went home.

2nd date we went ghost hunting. Man was that fun.

GODZ! · Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 5:06 pm Post subject:

lol.

take her to something person...not dinner neither cuase you don't know her yet. make her pay half fuck that. you still don't know her yet. if your nervous don't act it. she doesn't know you so you need to front until she does. nothing expensive, nothing over the top, something down to see if this girl is worthwhile, which it probably isn't. this is the probe. to see who she is.

Zolas · Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 7:25 pm Post subject:

Shademehr · Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 11:36 am Post subject: Re: drunken post!!

One thing not to do on your first date:

Belarathon · Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 11:56 am Post subject:

lol... yeah zolas... give up having fun with your friends and meeting cute waitresses to go out on dates with so you can buy more sojs

Shademehr · Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 12:00 pm Post subject:

Goky · Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 1425 1.68 Silvarrr

Perhaps it's a trade-off between the two and he'd prefer the latter.

Maybe you can compromise--play D2 on a 56k and drink cheap domestic light beers before going to applebees.